I had a simple question that had been pondering me. I'm very much into the fantasy of cuckolding. And so is my girlfriend. and its purely talk at this point but i was just curious how i would go about telling her that if it happens i would want it to be a white guy not a black guy? purely because of the uncomfortable size stereotypes etc etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated (this isnt a racial issues just a comfort level concern)
A lot of people have the racial aspect of cuckolding as a central part of the fetish, it seems, but I’ve never felt that way. The stereotype that black men have bigger dicks than other races is racist, especially when it devolves into stories involving the women shouting, “give me your big nigger dick!” There doesn’t have to be any racial aspect to cuckolding, unless that’s what you and your girlfriend want - it’s never played into the fantasies of my wife and I. If it’s something that doesn’t interest your girlfriend, I’d say you don’t need to worry.
As an aside, my wife has slept with a couple black men not because they were black but because she was attracted to them as men, and the biggest guy she’s ever been with was white.