We r a genuine married couple that has been in the hotwife lifestyle for 7 yrs. we have always had great success finding attractive well hung guys for my wife to fuck. But over the past year or so, it has become increasingly difficult to find QUALITY men for her to enjoy. She is 38, blonde, petite, and very pretty. It isn't looks that's causing the problem. So here's our three questions: 1) do you have any advice for finding the right men? 2) where do u live? 3) how many men has she had?
1. Most of our success in finding guys has come from local BDSM groups. Even if you aren’t into BDSM yourself, it’s a good way to meet some very interesting people, quite a few of whom are into swinging, and all of whom are open minded. We belong to a local swingers group as well, and we’ve met a couple guys on various websites as well.
Also, just because you haven’t been busy lately on the hotwife front doesn’t mean you won’t get lucky again in the future. There have been a couple periods where we weren’t having any luck at all, sometimes for months at a time. There wasn’t anything that was the main cause of it. Each dry spell has ended though - I’m sure if you keep looking for new options and meeting new people you’ll have great success once more.
2. We live in Wisconsin.
3. She’s been with about two dozen men since we started hotwifing (is that a word? I’m going to say it is). A couple of them have been one night stand kind of deals, but most of them she’s been seeing for several years.